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Top 11 Characteristics of Great Leaders - Surf Life Style!

1/6/2014

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Some of my first experiences with leadership began as a 14-year-old, when I started teaching martial arts classes for adults.  I learned the importance of leading by example.  I learned what it was to be in front of adults who were relying on me for guidance and support to grow their skills.

In my 20’s, my leadership journey further expanded after founding an organization that gave me the opportunity to not only grow and exercise leadership in ways that continually stretched me, but gave me the honor of working alongside some of the greatest, most courageous people I’d ever met in my life, from fellow scholars, small business owners, to social justice leaders, to corporate CEOs.

After really thinking about this journey of leadership, and some of the characteristics of great leaders I met along the way, it was hard not to think of surfing.  The similarities are uncanny, actually.  Who would have ever thought surfing could be such a window into greatness?   Below are 11 great leadership qualities I have seen in action over the years.

1.     Great leaders commit to their word and follow through:  In the way a surfer commits to a wave at the time of takeoff (the point where the surfer catches the wave and pops up on the board), when great leaders say they are going to do something, they actually do it.  They commit to their word.  When something changes on their end, they communicate it out or give advance notice.  Doing what they say they will do builds absolute trust and confidence in their word. 

2.     They have balanced energy:  Balance is at the foundation of surfing and is a quality I have observed in the greatest leaders I have met. They have a calm, balanced energy about them and are able to be fully present with you in the moment, even if they are extremely busy.  They possess a balanced and inviting way of doing things.  Many of them have a practice (yoga, running, meditation) or something that keeps them grounded.  That energy is felt when you are with them.

3.     They know when to be old skool:  Great leaders are skilled in the art of relationships, and more importantly, they just know when to pick up the phone, old- skool style.  They don’t send long, diary-like e-mails expressing their feelings and frustrations with a laundry list of things you did wrong or how they feel wronged.  When shit goes down, they pick up the phone.  They are courageous.  They confront things head-on and know when a face-to-face conversation is warranted.  Relationships matter to great leaders, and they know how to manage them.

4.     They choose creation over victimhood:  Great leaders have a creation vs. victim mentality.  This means they focus on the ride – the art of carving through the wave - even if the wave is monstrous and gnarly.  They are self-accountable and don’t blame others for their situation or their wipeouts.  If something doesn’t go as planned, they regroup, try again, shift strategies and embrace a growth mentality, learning from the process. 

5.     They possess a passion for their craft:  Much like a surfer, great leaders have a passion for their craft.  They put the best intentions of the issue, cause or organization before their personal agendas. 

6.     They understand the greater powers at work:  Like surfers who understand the power of the ocean, great leaders understand they are minute in the big scheme of things.  They know when to be humble and lead from behind, and how to manage a healthy ego while being at the helm.  They know how to use their ego selectively.

7.     They are courageous:  Like a big wave surfer tackling the world’s scariest waves, great leaders are courageous in their ability to confront uncomfortable situations and have those difficult conversations.  They face their fears, and by standing in their power and speaking their mind, they are able to come to new understandings with those around them.    

8.     They are versatile:  A surfer can be versatile in her ability to surf many different types of surfboards through many different types of conditions in the ocean.  In the same way, great leaders tend to have broad experience in various aspects of their craft, and are versatile in what they do.  Some of them may have started doing the most menial thing, but learned the ropes along the way and know what it feels like to be in the shoes of the people they are leading. 

9.     They respect others:  As surfers learn to have a healthy respect for the ocean, great leaders operate from a baseline of respect for people, including their rivals.  They are not the type who go around making up names for a colleague or boss, or talk badly about someone behind their back.  They hold respect for others and know how to communicate their position, even if it is at odds with someone else’s.    

10.  They are able to see trends through multiple perspectives:  A surfer goes through many perspectives – from assessing conditions on the beach, to being in the water taking the drop, to being in the ‘zone’, to duck diving under the wave.  They are able to be in all perspectives.  Great leaders are also able to be in a range of perspectives, understanding that not everyone will see something the way they do, but knowing how to cull the “trends” from varying perspectives around them. 

11. They are curious:  Just as surfers cross borders, curious about the next kind of wave they will encounter on the horizon, great leaders are curious.  They never assume anything, and know how to approach issues from a place of curiosity.  They know how to ask the right questions from this rich place of curiosity. 

What are some of your observations of great leadership? 

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6 Comments
toby miller link
1/9/2014 06:01:19 am

nicely done! pretty much covers everything, with the possible exception of constantly learning and honing one's craft.

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Haydn Griffith
1/12/2014 05:35:53 am

Pretty thorough list, Farhana! I also really like the surfing twist on it! :-)

As you mentioned in your story, leading by example is a huge one. Part of that, in my experience, is showing that you're not above what you ask your people to do - you're willing to roll your sleeves up and get to work right alongside the rest of the team to get the job done. Also, keeping to the same set of rules that you set for your team, so that they know that no one (not even the leader) is "above the law". It makes the rules something that "we all" share so it deepens the trust between the team and the leader.

I'd also list "perseverance" as another big one too, because it's this kind of grit/determination that not only keeps great leaders forging ahead but also helps them to inspire the team to do the same.

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Farhana
1/12/2014 06:38:22 am

Those are excellent ones Haydn. I think the rolling up your sleeves point really gets to the heart of the idea of recognizing privilege in leadership - one thing leaders can be more conscious and aware of - so easy to creep above the law (from personal experience) when you are in a leadership position and I think that's one thing leaders can look more deeply into - how this plays out in their work and team environments.
and YES on perseverance. great one!

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Khem link
1/19/2014 06:19:10 am

Leadership requires a commitment to transparency. You can't be afraid of the front line.

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Dr. Ethel Drayton-Craig link
1/19/2014 01:45:27 am

They also have a MORAL COMPASS. Very important!
This is an excellent list of traits.

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Joseph Cobb link
12/30/2017 04:15:07 am

I think everyone will agree with me when I say- being a pacemaker can be a challenging and enriching position in the corporate world. If you are preparing yourself for stepping into a leadership role, then you need to be aware of the effective leadership traits. Because I feel that knowing the leadership expertise is nothing but an integral part of your victory. Here, the author has discussed 11 prominent characteristics of a great groundbreaker. I agree with the author. I just want to say that integrity, excellent decision making skill, boundless energy, curiosity, ability to focus, are some other must-have singularities that a trendsetter should possess in order to become successful.

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